May 16, 2008  Issue 19
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The Collegiate Connection
 
   
 
This Edition of The Collegiate Connection
This week's Collegiate Connection is devoted to a mix of the practical and the nostalgic. We've provided a list of upcoming events (immediately below) and, following that, we're publishing several traditional eighth grade farewell letters, in alphabetical order. All class photos are by Nathan Ham. More letters will appear in the next Collegiate Connection, along with the usual news items and photos.
Upcoming Events at TCS
 
  • After School Adventures Private Instruction Recital - Sunday, May 18 at 2:00 pm - Assembly Hall
  • Retirement Reception for Eleese Young - Sunday, May 18 from 3:00 pm to 5:00 pm - Commons, Special Presentation at 4:00 p.m.
  • Talent show - Monday, May 19 from 2:00 to 3:15 pm and Tuesday, May 20 from 8:45 to 9:45 am (approx.) - Assembly Hall 
  • MS Music Program - Monday, May 19 at 7:00 pm in the Assembly Hall
  • MS Awards Assembly, Wednesday, May 21 8:35 am - Assembly Hall
  • Last Day of School for PK-4th grade - Wednesday, May 21 (this is a full-day)
  • 2nd Grade Year-End Party at Gage Park, Wednesday, May 21 from 11:00 am to 3:00 pm
  • Eighth Grade Continental Breakfast - Thursday, May 22 at 8:15 am - Commons
  • Eighth Grade Photos - Thursday, May 22 at 8:30 am (time approx. & place to be determined)
  • Eighth Grade Graduation - Thursday, May 22 at 10:00 am - Assembly Hall - Reception will follow in Commons
Parent Council News
The nominations are in!  The ballot to vote for 2008-2009 Parent Council officers and Committee Chairs will be out on Monday, May 19th.  The vote will be online and should take about 5 minutes to complete.  We need your votes, so please be sure to participate.
Alex C.
Auction ChairsWhen searching through boxes of Alex's photos for the 8th grade class auction project, I began to notice a theme.  In each one, there was Alex, surrounded by classmates, arms around each other's shoulders--bright-eyed, laughing, usually acting goofy.  Boxes and boxes of memories and moments preserved; in each one, Alex was never alone. (right: Alex with friends Julian M. and William M.)
 

Other photos were of Alex with his teachers:  Mrs. Nolde, Mrs. McEvoy, Ms. Rahn, Mr. Park, Ms. Seals, Mrs. Zachritz, Mrs. Siebert.  All smiling, caring, encouraging-arms around his shoulders....Alex was never alone. 


Alex Chanay

When Alex arrived at TCS in 1st grade, he was an open vessel.  Within weeks, he was reading voraciously and, by the end of the year, to our surprise, he recited Robert Frost's, "Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening" on-stage before a crowd of people.  He was so proud, his head full of new-found knowledge, his seven-year-old self surrounded by new friends. 
 

At TCS, Alex has been supported at every turn.  His musical talents have been encouraged by nearly everyone in the building.  Travis and Tracey Lamb even asked Alex to write a song and perform it for the middle school play.  Mrs. Siebert has also encouraged Alex to keep singing in the after-school choir and to compete in district music competitions.   
 

In between History lessons, Mr. Lamb has discussed screenwriting and movie-making with Alex.  Mr. MacDonald inspired Alex to read novels his parents didn't touch until high school or college.  We were digging into boxes of books in the basement all year, rediscovering Vonnegut, Camus, Capote,  Dostoevsky--thanks to the world of literature Mr. Mac introduced to our son. 

As STUCO President, Alex was invited by Mr. Tillona to introduce speakers at the Wednesday morning middle school meetings.  He was also asked to sit on the school's 25th Anniversary committee.  His idea of creating a logo of an eagle emerging from a birthday cake was used as part of the festivities. Alex even donned the eagle mascot suit to jump out of a giant paper cake at the school's birthday party last fall.  He got to see his idea come to fruition with the help of adults who valued his contribution to the project. 
 

Mrs. Hoyt and Mrs. Morris made math easier for Alex which gave him more confidence in the classroom.  Mr. Shinn's trip to Sea Camp won't soon be forgotten and his love of science is infectious.  And thanks to Mr. Martinez, Alex has been able to understand and speak a bit of Spanish on family trips to Nicaragua and Mexico.  Mrs. Moyer kept us all calm as we navigated our way through the State History Day competition for the first time. 

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Through the years we have, from time to time, been complimented on Alex's behavior and have been told that Alex carries himself with confidence and maturity.  We credit Topeka Collegiate's caring faculty and staff for that.  All along, Alex has been treated like a person whose thoughts have value.  He has been spoken to, not as a child, but as a human being of worth who has something interesting to contribute to the conversation.

Alex is ready for the world awaiting him in high school.  He has been given the gifts of strong character, a brain full of knowledge, a sense of humor, healthy curiosity and dozens of friends, families, alumni, and teachers who will continue to support him as he faces new challenges in the coming years.  Many thanks for all the love and guidance you have given our family the past 8 years. 
 

In friendship, 

Kris and Jeff C. 
 
Cyrus C.
Cyrus,
 
We are so proud of the person you are becoming every day.  We remember our new baby boy that greeted our world in the summer of 1994 and blessed all of our lives in the early years and for many years thereafter.  
 
Cyrus Clouten
Early on you were adored by Grandma Norene, who spent many hours caring for you, taking you on walks, and teaching you about the issues in life that really matter.  Nana and Grandpa Gary spoiled you with trips to our family home in Florida at least twice a year.  Grandpa Neville bought you the first "real" watercolors as you began your dream to one day follow in his footsteps to become an Architect/Artist.  Auntie Kirstin and Auntie Lyndsee were always more fun than Mom and Dad.  There were also special times with Uncle Jason hanging out on the beach. Your brothers, Harun and Kashi, spent endless hours trying to test your patience with "chundies" and other irritants. Let's not forget Pa, who gave you talent for violin, Grandma Mae, and Grandma "B" who would have loved to see you graduate this year, as well. From your first ski trip on Crystal Mountain at age three, rock climbing at age four, to the most recent adventures in your homeland Australia, you have shown a sense of adventure toward life.  
 
Memories of elementary and middle school are filled with friends, midnight Auction Chairsdances at Collegiate, violin lessons at Carolyn's Studio, Sunflower Soccer, parties every Saturday evening, frequent trips to Wichita, Portland, Orlando, Nani, Jada, Tish, E J K, and, of course midnight calls from Singapore and Alistair, Alistair, Alistair!
 
 
Collegiate has been so kind to you, from Mrs. Nolde's first grade Gary's Berries maze and Poetry Tea to Mr. Shinn's Sea Camp and Heifer.  You've learned so much from TCS teachers, with a special thanks to Mr. Lamb for a successful History Day and to Mr. Mac, who introduced you to your favorite book, "To Kill a Mockingbird", then left you with the dark beauty of Edgar Allen Poe and a quest to search for the poetry within your own soul.
 
Cyrus Clouten
You wrote a poem that sums up our lives and our memories of you, "Why does time go so fast?"  To add to your poem, we would say, "Become Timeless in the good you give back to the world".   We have seen your resilience, compassion, and kindness to others exhibited in many ways. We are all very proud of you and want you to know how very special you are to us.
 

Friends from all over the world are celebrating with you right now because of your innate ability to make lifelong friends. From Singapore to Australia, London to Karachi, your friends are many and you are loved by both family and friends.  Keep your life path open for good and live every day fully and without regrets.  We love you very much.Congratulations on your new ventures at Portland Academy next year.
 
 
Love,
Mom and Dad
Nick G.
Nick Gideon

It was 9 years ago that we enrolled Nick into kindergarten at Topeka Collegiate. He had made numerous trips to TCS over the years while his older brother was going to school there, yet he still found himself hesitant to leave his mom those first few days. It didn't take long however, for him to acclimate himself to his teacher, Mrs. Thiessen. It was in her room where he found his confidence and where he found his independence. 
 

In his 1st grade year he learned many new skills as well. It was here that he honed his spelling skills, his reading skills and some very important life skills that weren't taught by Mrs. Nolde. It was in first grade that Nick was diagnosed with diabetes. Although we try not to allow, and Nick certainly doesn't allow, diabetes to define him--it IS a part of him. How does a family pull themselves together after getting a diagnosis of this magnitude? It is through support from family and friends. It was during this first grade year, at the tender age of 7, that we found support from TCS in a manner far different from what we anticipated.   
 

How do you send a child of 7 off to school knowing that at any point his blood sugar may go so low that he passes out? Or so high that he can't think? Knowing it may be damaging his kidneys or his eyes? How does one feel comfortable with a 7 year old giving themselves up to 3 shots of insulin while at school?  How do you begin to feel comfortable with allowing your child to be a child, yet deal with a disease that many adults cannot handle and do not comprehend?  You trust, you have faith, you become educated, you teach, you listen, you work on a support system-and you pray. You also have Nick-who from the very beginning has given EVERYshot to himself, up to 8 shots a day. That alone speaks to Nick's determination and his courage. We also found tremendous support from the TCS community.  Thank you to the many TCS families and staff for their words of encouragement, concern, and support; for the hugs, the tender smiles and supportive shoulder grabs! Our family appreciated each and every one. 
 

We are also very thankful for the COUNTLESS phone calls from Sally Buckland, checking in with us "just to make sure" she was doing the right thing for Nick. Mrs. Buckland and Nick share a special bond, one that turned into a friendship, which continues today. Thank you Sally! We cannot fully express to the entire faculty and staff how much we appreciated your watchful eyes over Nick as he has dealt with this disease. 
 

Although this disease does not define Nick, it has been a big part of the mark he will leave on Topeka Collegiate. We know he has educated many of your children on diet, on exercise, on taking a STRONG negative and not allowing it to overtake your life.  Your support and genuine concern has given Nick a strong base from which to build.  
 

As he continues down his life road, we hope that you remember that not only does TCS offer academic goals, it also offers other educational opportunities.  We encourage your family to look around and see what it is that YOUR family can offer to the community of TCS. TCS is a community of people from many differing cultures, backgrounds and experiences. We encourage you to be open about those differences, in doing so we believe it will enrich your life. It assists your children to grow into interesting, varied and educated people. Topeka Collegiate has done just that for both of our children. We feel very fortunate to have found TCS 14 years ago, and to have had both of our boys graduate from a special school. Thank you to all the families we have met, to the faculty for their countless hours educating our children and for the many hours spent overseeing the "extra" opportunities TCS offers. This school is a partnership between families and the staff. We encourage all families to work on their partnership, building bridges and forging common goals and bonds. If you work on YOUR end of the partnership, we KNOW that the results you will see at the end will far exceed your expectations.  
 

Thank you for the many wonderful memories. We will miss Topeka Collegiate! 
 

The G. Family

Nicky H.
Henriquez, Nicky
Dear Friends,

Moving Nicky to TCS for his third grade year was one of the hardest transitions our family has ever made.  Nicky had left a school where he had developed his social niche and starting over was painfully hard for him.  I remember thinking he may just have to be an eighth grade drop-out because I'm never going to go through another school transition again.  Mrs. McEvoy was so patient and understanding, always checking to see how he was doing.  I remember her talking with the other kids about how hard it was to be new and encouraging them to include Nicky.  And it worked.  But one of the striking things to me was it wasn't just Mrs. McEvoy but teacher after teacher and staff member after staff member would stop me and ask how Nicky was doing (okay, his unhappiness wasn't subtle but they noticed and they cared).

Another remarkable aspect was how TCS responded to Nicky's math talent.  The teachers and administration made a totally coordinated effort to provide Nicky the math challenge he needed.  Part of our decision to move to TCS was because of our frustration with our public school-the school clearly did not want to provide more advanced opportunities.  At TCS, Mrs. McEvoy, Ms. Seals, Mr. Park, Mrs. Oswald, and Mr. Freed all worked to provide Nicky the math challenge he needed.  And Mr. Freed saw that it continued seamlessly throughout middle school with the inspired teaching of Mrs. Hoyt and Mr. McCoy.

At the time, I was so grateful for teachers and administration who were also advocates for my child's academic development.  What I have also come to appreciate is their concern and the role they played in his character development.  Through Mathletics, Mrs. Hoyt helped Nicky to learn how to be part of a team, how everybody has times when they win and times when they lose, and the discipline of practice.  Mr. McCoy pushed Nicky beyond his comfort zone and helped him learn to deal with ambiguity and to search for new strategies when the old ones don't work.  Ms. Seals encouraged his sense of humor.  Ms. Moyer helped him find his written "voice."  Mr. MacDonald opened up new avenues of written expression and explored new worlds through literature.  Mrs. Siebert helped him realize he can sing and encouraged his musical performance.  Coach Lamb pushed Nicky to try, even when he was uncertain about his success.  And in Nicky's words, "Mr. Lamb believes in me."  When I see Nicky's confidence and willingness to try new things, I know it reflects the investment all the wonderful teachers at TCS have made in my son. 

But it's not just the teachers.  I remember an essay Nicky wrote about the zip line at Hidden Pond.  He dreaded doing it, feared being humiliated.  And yet, in the essay, he comes to realize that he's among friends who care about him and will support him even if he fails.  And feeling that acceptance helped him to take risks-running for a STUCO office, acting in the middle school play, playing on the basketball team, even almost cross-dressing for Halloween.  Mrs. Lui's Diaspora Kids (aka BPC) helped Nicky appreciate his cultural heritage and be a role model for younger kids.  For Nicky, TCS was a safe place to try new things and figure out who he is.

Leaving TCS will be another hard transition-hard because of the faculty, staff, kids, and families we won't be seeing as often.  But I look up at my  son-the one who is so deeply thoughtful and yet so silly, who takes on challenges, works hard, makes friends easily, writes, sings, plays music, cares about social issues, and is so interested in the world around him-and I can see his teachers and friends and the TCS community reflected in his the person he is today.  Thank you for enriching our lives.  

Laura S. and Francois H.

Colton M.
It's hard to believe the time has come to write this 8th grade letter. I can still vividly remember Colton's first day in Mrs. Ford's pre-k class like it was yesterday. So many of the teachers at Collegiate have made an impact on Colton, but it is the early few (Mrs. Ford, Mrs. Berryman, and Mrs. Slaughter) that are responsible for laying a foundation for success with such a great depth of caring and nurturing. I am grateful to these women for their guidance in the early years. Mrs. Berryman has such a calm manner, yet is able to maintain control over 17 kindergartners like none I have ever seen. She remains one of Colton's favorite teachers to this day.
 
After Colton's third grade year, we made a decision to try our local public school. From the outside, we were able to see some of the advantages of Topeka Collegiate that we had taken for granted. When we found out Shawn would be deployed to Iraq, there was no question in our mind that we would place the children back at Collegiate. Aside from the academics, one of the major advantages of  our school is the community. It was this community that  I would need as a temporarily single parent. As a community, parents transported kids when I had to be in two places at once, the Student Council mailed donations to support Shawn's military unit, and the administration provided invaluable support.
 
I believe spending a year away from TCS was insightful to Colton. Upon his return, he was placed in the classroom of a new teacher, Mr. Philipp. Mr. Philipp skillfully tapped into Colton's sense of responsibility, preparing him for middle school, where time management and accountability are expected. Mr. Philipp had the ability to teach complex subjects in a way the student could easily grasp. I think the students learned far more from him than they even realized at the time. Mr. Philipp had such an impact on the students that they strived to excel. I think many of Colton's work habits were formed in this fifth grade classroom and I only regret others will not have this opportunity.
 
Auction ChairsMiddle school brought a new round of challenges. However, the sense of responsibility taught at this level is great preparation for higher education. We have particularly appreciated Colton's continuing enjoyment of math under Mrs. Hoyt's leadership. The atmosphere for learning in Mr. MacDonald's class is truly motivating. Although Colton did not know how to skip in pre-k, he did not let that deter him from gym activities. Mrs. Lamb joined the TCS family and became an admired coach. Who knew Colton could play volleyball? Many thanks to Coach Lamb for her support in all of the many sports programs and STUCO responsibilities.
 
I believe Topeka Collegiate has prepared Colton for whatever life sends his way. TCS has afforded him the opportunity to appear on stage, something that will serve him tremendously in the future, whether it is through acting, singing, or public speaking. He has confidence in his own abilities. Collegiate has created an enviroment where students want to excel, are encouraged and challenged. Thank you to the teachers for your dedication to our son. Colton is a responsible, intelligent, sensitive soul that has flourished under the roof of Topeka Collegiate.
 
Sincerely,
 
Shawn and Lisa M.
Haley P.
Haley Prekopy
Topeka Collegiate School
Memories to Last a Lifetime 

 
When Haley was just 2 ½ years old, she displayed personality traits of independence and self-reliance, always wanting to "lead" and investigate. Considering these traits, our family searched for a pre-school environment that would cater to Haley and foster her talents. In Children's House Montessori we found that environment, and for the next two years Haley thrived there.  When she was four, a friend whose boys attended Shawnee Country Day School (which later became Topeka Collegiate) suggested Haley would benefit from the educational opportunities so similar to Children's House. 

Because we wanted to be sure Haley would have a "spot" in her kindergarten year at Collegiate, we transferred her mid-year to Mrs. Ford's Pre-K. "Everyone made me feel so welcome!" Haley recalled. So began her invaluable experiences in this remarkable school.  Each class brought its special memories. 
 

From the beginning, the classroom and special assemblies, including music programs, appealed to Haley. She gained confidence being on stage, projecting to an audience, taking direction, exploring creativity, and working with an ensemble.  Looking back, we smile when we recall an acquaintance who criticized Collegiate for "too much emphasis on performance." That's the school for us, we thought! 
 

She loved kindergarten with Mrs. Berryman.  "It was the first time we actually had desks! And every Friday someone brought popsicles," she remembered.  That was also the year she slipped, going into the classroom one day, and wedged her fingers under a shelf so tightly a janitor had to help release her.  Mrs. Berryman remembers that one too! 
 

Her first grade assembly with Mrs. Nolde was about "The Old Woman Who Swallowed A Pie"  (Haley was a carrot).  Mrs. Nolde, who "always walked around with a coffee cup," according to Haley, started her in poetry, grammar, and phonics, in preparation for the class's Poetry Tea. 
 

In second grade Mrs. McEvoy led them through the One-Room Schoolhouse project, ending with the spirited Line Dance for parents and friends. How could those little children remember all those moves, we wondered! 
 

In her third grade year, Haley began the "Junior Great Books" project, led by Shelley Waugh.  It was a year of academic growth, as she began participation in Math Olympics and in-depth study of rain forests, under Mrs. Redmond's guidance, culminating in the "tours" of the students' own Rain Forest.  Haley also remembers the Festival of Trees that year, because her class decorated a special tree, and her youth choir sang there. 
 

Singing has been a huge part of Haley's Collegiate life. In kindergarten, she began "Junior Singing Fun" under Mrs. Siebert and she has sung in choir every year since then, often presenting programs locally in rest homes and for special occasions, and competing at the Worlds of Fun Music Festival.  Those opportunities have been priceless.  In 2006 the Youth Choir was chosen to perform in Wichita for the Kansas Music Educators Association, and this past year Haley was selected as one of two students representing Collegiate in the Statewide Treble Honor Choir. 
 

Along with music, art under Mrs. Zachritz year after year has provided the creative outlet and balance that is central to Collegiate's mission: "educating children for life."  Mrs. Zachritz comes up with new ideas every year, suggesting a direction with a few lines here, a bit of shading there, and then allowing her students to follow their own inner notions of self-expression.  
 

Fourth grade with Mr. Park and Mrs. Oswald brought more "firsts"-her real taste of "history year," leading to the challenging History Day projects to come in Middle School years, under Mr. Lamb.  It was also her first trip to Hidden Pond, an activity she eagerly anticipated year after year, as the challenges increased in difficulty: the "ropes course" in fifth grade, the "pamper pole" in sixth grade ("I almost grabbed the trapeze bar!").  This year's eighth grade adventure was the "zip line!"  Hidden Pond combined many of the elements that make Collegiate unique, stretching students not only physically but also mentally, as they reflected, in that natural setting, and wrote poetry and memoirs of the experiences.  The challenges of Hidden Pond prepared her for the unparalleled Florida adventure, Sea Camp, where all her acquired self-reliance skills and her swimming background gave her a lifetime memory. 
 

"Festival of the Nile" was a highlight for Haley in fifth grade, with Mr. Philipp and Ms. Seals, as her class once again went "in-depth" on a project, studying, memorizing facts, and creating a presentation for family and friends.  She also recalled Ms. Seals challenged them to a "TV-free" week! 
 

Despite all the preparation through the lower grades for transition to Middle School, sixth grade was "big," as she learned to "switch classes," and actually to have a locker!  Throughout these years, she repeated, "The teachers are amazing. They really challenge us!"   But in that first year of transition, the teacher who helped her "survive" and balance her life was Mr. MacDonald, the "snow globe" teacher. Haley was by then on a competitive swim team in town, and managing her academic and daily swim practice schedule was daunting. During many early morning discussions before school, "Mr. Mac" provided support and taught her to write her thoughts and thus work through her anxieties. She borrowed his books, and from him she continued her love for reading, poetry, grammar, and creative writing.  
 

Also throughout middle school, Haley has appreciated Mrs. Lamb's enthusiasm and encouragement to continue the swimming, even though it is not a school sport.  Haley states that Mrs. Lamb is passionate about physical activity and health, and she "has always been positive about and interested in my swimming successes." 
 

From Mr. Shinn, Haley learned invaluable "hands-on" science lessons, and from the sixth grade science project ("it was a flop!") through the much-improved seventh grade project, she "finally got it" as the Scientific Method started making sense by eighth grade!  Haley's dream is to pursue animal science or marine biology. From Mrs. Baldwin in the lower grades, Mr. Shinn, and Mrs. Hoyt, she has made good strides in science and math.  Mrs. Hoyt has prepared her for high school math, teaching her "transition math," algebra, and geometry, and making it possible for her to compete in several math competitions. "High school math should be a breeze!" Haley joked. 
 

Years of study in Spanish, culminating in upper level classes with Mr. Martinez, have given her skills in understanding another language and its culture.  She has been likewise challenged by the multi-cultural opportunities Mr. Lamb has provided through History Club and History Day projects.  Mr. Lamb has also encouraged her to participate in Debate and Mock Trial sessions. 
 

Moving beyond the teachers and specific class memories, we think about administrative and support staff who have been an integral part of this journey for Haley and our family. Haley has especially fond memories of Mrs. Huff, recalling she "was the first Topeka Collegiate person I laid eyes on, and she was so warm and welcoming."  Haley also has appreciated the kindness and patience of Mrs. Buckland who has tolerated her many trips to the nurse's office as she battled allergies, asthma, and headaches, and accepted Haley's need to place "countless calls to my mom for reassurance and advice."  Our family has enjoyed Mrs. Mullican's calm manner and velvet voice as she pleasantly greets office visitors and accepts phone calls. And we thank Mrs. Loftus, who takes genuine interest in the children's activities and spends hours ensuring that successes are recounted and featured in the newsletter, to become a lasting memory.  We appreciate Mrs. Tilghman's patience in addressing financial and business matters with our family in a kind and understanding fashion.  Finally, Haley fondly recalls Dr. Roberts and the tone he set for the school and her learning for so many years, and most recently, the guidance given and the interest shown by Mr. Hudspeth and Mr. Tillona. 
 

Once each year, Collegiate celebrates the "Day of the Child."  But for Haley, like most TCS students, every day has been a Day of the Child. As Haley completes this decade of her life and transitions into the next, she will do so with fond memories and rich adventures for a lifetime. We could not have asked for anything more for our daughter, and we treasure the opportunities she has been given at Topeka Collegiate School.  

Ed and Kirsten P.

Parents of Haley P. 
 

 

If the school sends out children with a desire for knowledge and some idea of how to acquire and use it, it will have done its work.

Richard Livingston