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This Edition of The Collegiate
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This week's Collegiate Connection is
devoted to a mix of the practical and the
nostalgic. We've provided a list of upcoming
events (immediately below) and,
following that, we're publishing several
traditional eighth grade farewell letters, in
alphabetical order. All class photos are by
Nathan Ham. More letters will appear in the
next Collegiate Connection, along with
the usual news items and photos. |
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Upcoming Events at TCS |
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After School Adventures Private Instruction
Recital - Sunday, May 18 at 2:00 pm -
Assembly Hall
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Retirement Reception for Eleese Young -
Sunday, May 18 from 3:00 pm to 5:00 pm -
Commons, Special Presentation at
4:00 p.m.
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Talent show - Monday, May 19 from 2:00 to
3:15 pm and Tuesday, May 20 from 8:45 to
9:45 am (approx.) - Assembly Hall
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MS
Music Program - Monday, May 19 at 7:00 pm in
the Assembly Hall
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MS
Awards Assembly, Wednesday, May 21 8:35 am -
Assembly Hall
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Last
Day of School for PK-4th grade - Wednesday,
May 21 (this is a full-day)
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2nd
Grade Year-End Party at Gage Park,
Wednesday, May 21 from 11:00 am to 3:00 pm
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Eighth Grade Continental Breakfast -
Thursday, May 22 at 8:15 am - Commons
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Eighth Grade Photos - Thursday, May 22 at
8:30 am (time approx. & place to be
determined)
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Eighth Grade Graduation - Thursday, May 22
at 10:00 am - Assembly Hall - Reception will
follow in Commons
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Parent Council News |
The nominations are in! The ballot to
vote for 2008-2009 Parent Council
officers and Committee Chairs will be
out on Monday, May 19th. The vote will
be online and should take about 5
minutes to complete. We need your
votes, so please be sure to participate.
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Alex C. |
When
searching through boxes of Alex's photos for the
8th grade class auction project, I
began to notice a theme. In each one, there was
Alex, surrounded by classmates, arms around each
other's shoulders--bright-eyed, laughing,
usually acting goofy. Boxes and boxes of
memories and moments preserved; in each one,
Alex was never alone. (right: Alex
with friends Julian M. and
William M.)
Other
photos were of Alex with his teachers: Mrs.
Nolde, Mrs. McEvoy, Ms. Rahn, Mr. Park, Ms.
Seals, Mrs. Zachritz, Mrs. Siebert. All
smiling, caring, encouraging-arms around his
shoulders....Alex was never alone.
When Alex arrived at TCS in 1st
grade, he was an open vessel. Within weeks, he
was reading voraciously and, by the end of the
year, to our surprise, he recited Robert
Frost's, "Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening"
on-stage before a crowd of people. He was so
proud, his head full of new-found knowledge, his
seven-year-old self surrounded by new friends.
At TCS, Alex has been supported at every
turn. His musical talents have been encouraged
by nearly everyone in the building. Travis and
Tracey Lamb even asked Alex to write a song and
perform it for the middle school play. Mrs.
Siebert has also encouraged Alex to keep singing
in the after-school choir and to compete in
district music competitions.
In between History lessons, Mr. Lamb has
discussed screenwriting and movie-making with
Alex. Mr. MacDonald inspired Alex to read
novels his parents didn't touch until high
school or college. We were digging into boxes
of books in the basement all year, rediscovering
Vonnegut, Camus, Capote, Dostoevsky--thanks to
the world of literature Mr. Mac introduced to
our son.
As STUCO President, Alex was invited by Mr.
Tillona to introduce speakers at the Wednesday
morning middle school meetings. He was also
asked to sit on the school's 25th
Anniversary committee. His idea of creating a
logo of an eagle emerging from a birthday cake
was used as part of the festivities. Alex even
donned the eagle mascot suit to jump out of a
giant paper cake at the school's birthday party
last fall. He got to see his idea come to
fruition with the help of adults who valued his
contribution to the project.
Mrs. Hoyt and Mrs. Morris made math easier
for Alex which gave him more confidence in the
classroom. Mr. Shinn's trip to Sea Camp won't
soon be forgotten and his love of science is
infectious. And thanks to Mr. Martinez, Alex
has been able to understand and speak a bit of
Spanish on family trips to Nicaragua and
Mexico. Mrs. Moyer kept us all calm as we
navigated our way through the State History Day
competition for the first time.
Through the years we have, from time to
time, been complimented on Alex's behavior
and have been told that Alex carries himself
with confidence and maturity. We credit
Topeka Collegiate's caring faculty and staff
for that. All along, Alex has been treated
like a person whose thoughts have value. He
has been spoken to, not as a child, but as a
human being of worth who has something
interesting to contribute to the
conversation.
Alex is ready for the world awaiting him in high
school. He has been given the gifts of strong
character, a brain full of knowledge, a sense of
humor, healthy curiosity and dozens of friends,
families, alumni, and teachers who will continue
to support him as he faces new challenges in the
coming years. Many thanks for all the love and
guidance you have given our family the past 8
years.
In friendship,
Kris and Jeff C.
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Cyrus C. |
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Cyrus,
We are so proud of the person you are becoming
every day. We remember our new baby boy that
greeted our world in the summer of 1994 and
blessed all of our lives in the early years and
for many years thereafter.
Early on you were adored by Grandma Norene, who
spent many hours caring for you, taking you on
walks, and teaching you about the issues in life
that really matter. Nana and Grandpa Gary
spoiled you with trips to our family home in
Florida at least twice a year. Grandpa Neville
bought you the first "real" watercolors as you
began your dream to one day follow in his
footsteps to become an Architect/Artist. Auntie
Kirstin and Auntie Lyndsee were always more fun
than Mom and Dad. There were also special times
with Uncle Jason hanging out on the beach. Your
brothers, Harun and Kashi, spent endless hours
trying to test your patience with "chundies" and
other irritants. Let's not forget Pa, who gave
you talent for violin, Grandma Mae, and Grandma
"B" who would have loved to see you graduate
this year, as well. From your first ski trip on
Crystal Mountain at age three, rock climbing at
age four, to the most recent adventures in your
homeland Australia, you have shown a sense of
adventure toward life.
Memories of elementary and middle school are
filled with friends, midnight
dances
at Collegiate, violin lessons at Carolyn's
Studio, Sunflower Soccer, parties every Saturday
evening, frequent trips to Wichita, Portland,
Orlando, Nani, Jada, Tish, E J K, and, of course
midnight calls from Singapore and Alistair,
Alistair, Alistair!
Collegiate has been so kind to you, from Mrs.
Nolde's first grade Gary's Berries maze and
Poetry Tea to Mr. Shinn's Sea Camp and Heifer.
You've learned so much from TCS teachers, with
a special thanks to Mr. Lamb for a successful
History Day and to Mr. Mac, who introduced you
to your favorite book, "To Kill a Mockingbird",
then left you with the dark beauty of Edgar
Allen Poe and a quest to search for the poetry
within your own soul.
You wrote a poem that sums up our lives and our
memories of you, "Why does time go so fast?" To
add to your poem, we would say, "Become Timeless
in the good you give back to the world". We
have seen your resilience, compassion, and
kindness to others exhibited in many ways. We
are all very proud of you and want you to know
how very special you are to us.
Friends from all over the world are celebrating
with you right now because of your innate
ability to make lifelong friends. From Singapore
to Australia, London to Karachi, your friends
are many and you are loved by both family and
friends. Keep your life path open for good and
live every day fully and without regrets. We
love you very much.Congratulations on your new
ventures at Portland Academy next year.
Love,
Mom and Dad
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Nick G. |
It was 9 years ago that we enrolled Nick
into kindergarten at Topeka Collegiate. He
had made numerous trips to TCS over the
years while his older brother was going to
school there, yet he still found himself
hesitant to leave his mom those first few
days. It didn't take long however, for him
to acclimate himself to his teacher, Mrs.
Thiessen. It was in her room where he found
his confidence and where he found his
independence.
In his 1st grade year he learned
many new skills as well. It was here that he
honed his spelling skills, his reading
skills and some very important life skills
that weren't taught by Mrs. Nolde. It was in
first grade that Nick was diagnosed with
diabetes. Although we try not to allow, and
Nick certainly doesn't allow, diabetes to
define him--it IS a part of him. How
does a family pull themselves together after
getting a diagnosis of this magnitude? It is
through support from family and friends. It
was during this first grade year, at the
tender age of 7, that we found support from
TCS in a manner far different from what we
anticipated.
How do you send a child of 7 off to school
knowing that at any point his blood sugar
may go so low that he passes out? Or so high
that he can't think? Knowing it may be
damaging his kidneys or his eyes? How does
one feel comfortable with a 7 year old
giving themselves up to 3 shots of insulin
while at school? How do you begin to feel
comfortable with allowing your child to be a
child, yet deal with a disease that many
adults cannot handle and do not comprehend?
You trust, you have faith, you become
educated, you teach, you listen, you work on
a support system-and you pray. You also have
Nick-who from the very beginning has given
EVERYshot to himself, up to 8
shots a day. That alone speaks to Nick's
determination and his courage. We also found
tremendous support from the TCS community.
Thank you to the many TCS families and staff
for their words of encouragement, concern,
and support; for the hugs, the tender smiles
and supportive shoulder grabs! Our family
appreciated each and every one.
We are also very thankful for the COUNTLESS
phone calls from Sally Buckland, checking in
with us "just to make sure" she was doing
the right thing for Nick. Mrs. Buckland and
Nick share a special bond, one that turned
into a friendship, which continues today.
Thank you Sally! We cannot fully express
to the entire faculty and staff how much we
appreciated your watchful eyes over Nick as
he has dealt with this disease.
Although this disease does not define Nick,
it has been a big part of the mark he will
leave on Topeka Collegiate. We know he has
educated many of your children on diet, on
exercise, on taking a STRONG negative and
not allowing it to overtake your life. Your
support and genuine concern has given Nick a
strong base from which to build.
As he continues down his life road, we hope
that you remember that not only does TCS
offer academic goals, it also offers other
educational opportunities. We encourage
your family to look around and see what it
is that YOUR family can offer to the
community of TCS. TCS is a community of
people from many differing cultures,
backgrounds and experiences. We encourage
you to be open about those differences, in
doing so we believe it will enrich your
life. It assists your children to grow into
interesting, varied and educated people.
Topeka Collegiate has done just that for
both of our children. We feel very fortunate
to have found TCS 14 years ago, and to have
had both of our boys graduate from a special
school. Thank you to all the families we
have met, to the faculty for their countless
hours educating our children and for the
many hours spent overseeing the "extra"
opportunities TCS offers. This school is a
partnership between families and the staff.
We encourage all families to work on their
partnership, building bridges and forging
common goals and bonds. If you work on YOUR
end of the partnership, we KNOW that the
results you will see at the end will far
exceed your expectations.
Thank you for the many wonderful memories.
We will miss Topeka Collegiate!
The G. Family
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Nicky H. |

Dear Friends,
Moving Nicky to TCS for his third grade year
was one of the hardest transitions our
family has ever made. Nicky had left a
school where he had developed his social
niche and starting over was painfully hard
for him. I remember thinking he may just
have to be an eighth grade drop-out because
I'm never going to go through another school
transition again. Mrs. McEvoy was so
patient and understanding, always checking
to see how he was doing. I remember her
talking with the other kids about how hard
it was to be new and encouraging them to
include Nicky. And it worked. But one of
the striking things to me was it wasn't just
Mrs. McEvoy but teacher after teacher and
staff member after staff member would stop
me and ask how Nicky was doing (okay, his
unhappiness wasn't subtle but they noticed
and they cared).
Another remarkable aspect was how TCS
responded to Nicky's math talent. The
teachers and administration made a
totally coordinated effort to provide
Nicky the math challenge he needed.
Part of our decision to move to TCS was
because of our frustration with our
public school-the school clearly did not
want to provide more advanced
opportunities. At TCS, Mrs. McEvoy, Ms.
Seals, Mr. Park, Mrs. Oswald, and Mr.
Freed all worked to provide Nicky the
math challenge he needed. And Mr. Freed
saw that it continued seamlessly
throughout middle school with the
inspired teaching of Mrs. Hoyt and Mr.
McCoy.
At the time, I was so grateful for teachers and
administration who were also advocates for my
child's academic development. What I have also
come to appreciate is their concern and the role
they played in his character development.
Through Mathletics, Mrs. Hoyt helped Nicky to
learn how to be part of a team, how everybody
has times when they win and times when they
lose, and the discipline of practice. Mr. McCoy
pushed Nicky beyond his comfort zone and helped
him learn to deal with ambiguity and to search
for new strategies when the old ones don't
work. Ms. Seals encouraged his sense of humor.
Ms. Moyer helped him find his written "voice."
Mr. MacDonald opened up new avenues of written
expression and explored new worlds through
literature. Mrs. Siebert helped him realize he
can sing and encouraged his musical
performance. Coach Lamb pushed Nicky to try,
even when he was uncertain about his success.
And in Nicky's words, "Mr. Lamb believes in
me." When I see Nicky's confidence and
willingness to try new things, I know it
reflects the investment all the wonderful
teachers at TCS have made in my son.
But it's not just the teachers. I remember an
essay Nicky wrote about the zip line at Hidden
Pond. He dreaded doing it, feared being
humiliated. And yet, in the essay, he comes to
realize that he's among friends who care about
him and will support him even if he fails. And
feeling that acceptance helped him to take
risks-running for a STUCO office, acting in the
middle school play, playing on the basketball
team, even almost cross-dressing for Halloween.
Mrs. Lui's Diaspora Kids (aka BPC) helped Nicky
appreciate his cultural heritage and be a role
model for younger kids. For Nicky, TCS was a
safe place to try new things and figure out who
he is.
Leaving TCS will be another hard transition-hard
because of the faculty, staff, kids, and
families we won't be seeing as often. But I
look up at my son-the one who is so deeply
thoughtful and yet so silly, who takes on
challenges, works hard, makes friends easily,
writes, sings, plays music, cares about social
issues, and is so interested in the world around
him-and I can see his teachers and friends and
the TCS community reflected in his the person he
is today. Thank you for enriching our lives.
Laura S. and Francois H. |
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Colton M. |
It's
hard to believe the time has come to write this
8th grade letter. I can still vividly remember
Colton's first day in Mrs. Ford's pre-k class
like it was yesterday. So many of the teachers
at Collegiate have made an impact on Colton, but
it is the early few (Mrs. Ford, Mrs. Berryman,
and Mrs. Slaughter) that are responsible for
laying a foundation for success with such a
great depth of caring and nurturing. I am
grateful to these women for their guidance in
the early years. Mrs. Berryman has such a calm
manner, yet is able to maintain control over 17
kindergartners like none I have ever seen. She
remains one of Colton's favorite teachers to
this day.
After Colton's third grade year, we made a
decision to try our local public school.
From the outside, we were able to see some
of the advantages of Topeka Collegiate that
we had taken for granted. When we found out
Shawn would be deployed to Iraq, there was
no question in our mind that we would place
the children back at Collegiate. Aside from
the academics, one of the major advantages
of our school is the community. It was this
community that I would need as a
temporarily single parent. As a community,
parents transported kids when I had to be in
two places at once, the Student Council
mailed donations to support Shawn's military
unit, and the administration provided
invaluable support.
I believe spending a year away from TCS was
insightful to Colton. Upon his return, he
was placed in the classroom of a new
teacher, Mr. Philipp. Mr. Philipp skillfully
tapped into Colton's sense of
responsibility, preparing him for middle
school, where time management and
accountability are expected. Mr. Philipp had
the ability to teach complex subjects in a
way the student could easily grasp. I think
the students learned far more from him than
they even realized at the time. Mr. Philipp
had such an impact on the students that they
strived to excel. I think many of Colton's
work habits were formed in this fifth grade
classroom and I only regret others will not
have this opportunity.
 Middle
school brought a new round of challenges.
However, the sense of responsibility taught
at this level is great preparation for
higher education. We have particularly
appreciated Colton's continuing enjoyment of
math under Mrs. Hoyt's leadership. The
atmosphere for learning in Mr. MacDonald's
class is truly motivating. Although Colton
did not know how to skip in pre-k, he did
not let that deter him from gym activities.
Mrs. Lamb joined the TCS family and became
an admired coach. Who knew Colton could play
volleyball? Many thanks to Coach Lamb for
her support in all of the many sports
programs and STUCO responsibilities.
I believe Topeka Collegiate has prepared
Colton for whatever life sends his way. TCS
has afforded him the opportunity to appear
on stage, something that will serve him
tremendously in the future, whether it is
through acting, singing, or public speaking.
He has confidence in his own abilities.
Collegiate has created an enviroment where
students want to excel, are encouraged and
challenged. Thank you to the teachers for
your dedication to our son. Colton is a
responsible, intelligent, sensitive soul
that has flourished under the roof of Topeka
Collegiate.
Sincerely,
Shawn and Lisa M.
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Haley P. |
Topeka Collegiate School
Memories to Last a Lifetime
When Haley was just 2 ½ years old, she
displayed personality traits of independence
and self-reliance, always wanting to "lead"
and investigate. Considering these traits,
our family searched for a pre-school
environment that would cater to Haley and
foster her talents. In Children's House
Montessori we found that environment, and
for the next two years Haley thrived there.
When she was four, a friend whose boys
attended Shawnee Country Day School (which
later became Topeka Collegiate) suggested
Haley would benefit from the educational
opportunities so similar to Children's
House.
Because we wanted to be sure Haley would
have a "spot" in her kindergarten year at
Collegiate, we transferred her mid-year to
Mrs. Ford's Pre-K. "Everyone made me feel so
welcome!" Haley recalled. So began her
invaluable experiences in this remarkable
school. Each class brought its special
memories.
From the beginning, the classroom and
special assemblies, including music
programs, appealed to Haley. She gained
confidence being on stage, projecting to an
audience, taking direction, exploring
creativity, and working with an ensemble.
Looking back, we smile when we recall an
acquaintance who criticized Collegiate for
"too much emphasis on performance." That's
the school for us, we thought!
She loved kindergarten with Mrs. Berryman.
"It was the first time we actually had
desks! And every Friday someone brought
popsicles," she remembered. That was also
the year she slipped, going into the
classroom one day, and wedged her fingers
under a shelf so tightly a janitor had to
help release her. Mrs. Berryman remembers
that one too!
Her first grade assembly with Mrs. Nolde was
about "The Old Woman Who Swallowed A Pie"
(Haley was a carrot). Mrs. Nolde, who
"always walked around with a coffee cup,"
according to Haley, started her in poetry,
grammar, and phonics, in preparation for the
class's Poetry Tea.
In second grade Mrs. McEvoy led them through
the One-Room Schoolhouse project, ending
with the spirited Line Dance for parents and
friends. How could those little children
remember all those moves, we wondered!
In her third grade year, Haley began the
"Junior Great Books" project, led by Shelley
Waugh. It was a year of academic growth, as
she began participation in Math Olympics and
in-depth study of rain forests, under Mrs.
Redmond's guidance, culminating in the
"tours" of the students' own Rain Forest.
Haley also remembers the Festival of Trees
that year, because her class decorated a
special tree, and her youth choir sang
there.
Singing has been a huge part of Haley's
Collegiate life. In kindergarten, she began
"Junior Singing Fun" under Mrs. Siebert and
she has sung in choir every year since then,
often presenting programs locally in rest
homes and for special occasions, and
competing at the Worlds of Fun Music
Festival. Those opportunities have been
priceless. In 2006 the Youth Choir was
chosen to perform in Wichita for the Kansas
Music Educators Association, and this past
year Haley was selected as one of two
students representing Collegiate in the
Statewide Treble Honor Choir.
Along with music, art under Mrs. Zachritz
year after year has provided the creative
outlet and balance that is central to
Collegiate's mission: "educating children
for life." Mrs. Zachritz comes up with new
ideas every year, suggesting a direction
with a few lines here, a bit of shading
there, and then allowing her students to
follow their own inner notions of
self-expression.
Fourth grade with Mr. Park and Mrs. Oswald
brought more "firsts"-her real taste of
"history year," leading to the challenging
History Day projects to come in Middle
School years, under Mr. Lamb. It was also
her first trip to Hidden Pond, an activity
she eagerly anticipated year after year, as
the challenges increased in difficulty: the
"ropes course" in fifth grade, the "pamper
pole" in sixth grade ("I almost
grabbed the trapeze bar!"). This year's
eighth grade adventure was the "zip line!"
Hidden Pond combined many of the elements
that make Collegiate unique, stretching
students not only physically but also
mentally, as they reflected, in that natural
setting, and wrote poetry and memoirs of the
experiences. The challenges of Hidden Pond
prepared her for the unparalleled Florida
adventure, Sea Camp, where all her acquired
self-reliance skills and her swimming
background gave her a lifetime memory.
"Festival of the Nile" was a highlight for
Haley in fifth grade, with Mr. Philipp and
Ms. Seals, as her class once again went
"in-depth" on a project, studying,
memorizing facts, and creating a
presentation for family and friends. She
also recalled Ms. Seals challenged them to a
"TV-free" week!
Despite all the preparation through the
lower grades for transition to Middle
School, sixth grade was "big," as she
learned to "switch classes," and actually to
have a locker! Throughout these years, she
repeated, "The teachers are amazing. They
really challenge us!" But in that first
year of transition, the teacher who helped
her "survive" and balance her life was Mr.
MacDonald, the "snow globe" teacher. Haley
was by then on a competitive swim team in
town, and managing her academic and daily
swim practice schedule was daunting. During
many early morning discussions before
school, "Mr. Mac" provided support and
taught her to write her thoughts and thus
work through her anxieties. She borrowed his
books, and from him she continued her love
for reading, poetry, grammar, and creative
writing.
Also throughout middle school, Haley has
appreciated Mrs. Lamb's enthusiasm and
encouragement to continue the swimming, even
though it is not a school sport. Haley
states that Mrs. Lamb is passionate about
physical activity and health, and she "has
always been positive about and interested in
my swimming successes."
From Mr. Shinn, Haley learned invaluable
"hands-on" science lessons, and from the
sixth grade science project ("it was a
flop!") through the much-improved seventh
grade project, she "finally got it" as the
Scientific Method started making sense by
eighth grade! Haley's dream is to pursue
animal science or marine biology. From Mrs.
Baldwin in the lower grades, Mr. Shinn, and
Mrs. Hoyt, she has made good strides in
science and math. Mrs. Hoyt has prepared
her for high school math, teaching her
"transition math," algebra, and geometry,
and making it possible for her to compete in
several math competitions. "High school math
should be a breeze!" Haley joked.
Years of study in Spanish, culminating in
upper level classes with Mr. Martinez, have
given her skills in understanding another
language and its culture. She has been
likewise challenged by the multi-cultural
opportunities Mr. Lamb has provided through
History Club and History Day projects. Mr.
Lamb has also encouraged her to participate
in Debate and Mock Trial sessions.
Moving beyond the teachers and specific
class memories, we think about
administrative and support staff who have
been an integral part of this journey for
Haley and our family. Haley has especially
fond memories of Mrs. Huff, recalling she
"was the first Topeka Collegiate person I
laid eyes on, and she was so warm and
welcoming." Haley also has appreciated the
kindness and patience of Mrs. Buckland who
has tolerated her many trips to the nurse's
office as she battled allergies, asthma, and
headaches, and accepted Haley's need to
place "countless calls to my mom for
reassurance and advice." Our family has
enjoyed Mrs. Mullican's calm manner and
velvet voice as she pleasantly greets office
visitors and accepts phone calls. And we
thank Mrs. Loftus, who takes genuine
interest in the children's activities and
spends hours ensuring that successes are
recounted and featured in the newsletter, to
become a lasting memory. We appreciate Mrs.
Tilghman's patience in addressing financial
and business matters with our family in a
kind and understanding fashion. Finally,
Haley fondly recalls Dr. Roberts and the
tone he set for the school and her learning
for so many years, and most recently, the
guidance given and the interest shown by Mr.
Hudspeth and Mr. Tillona.
Once each year, Collegiate celebrates the
"Day of the Child." But for Haley, like
most TCS students, every day has been a Day
of the Child. As Haley completes this decade
of her life and transitions into the next,
she will do so with fond memories and rich
adventures for a lifetime. We could not have
asked for anything more for our daughter,
and we treasure the opportunities she has
been given at Topeka Collegiate School.
Ed and Kirsten P.
Parents of Haley P.
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